A Little About Me

Hi, I’m Brooklyn Boardman—but you can call me Coach B. I’m a certified life and marriage coach with a passion for helping women rediscover themselves, communicate with confidence, and reignite intimacy, passion, and emotional connection in their relationships.

I hold a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology, a Bachelor of Arts in Human Services, and a Master of Science in International Policy. I've spent over a decade studying human behavior—why and how people think, why we disconnect, shut down, or stay stuck in patterns that leave us feeling unseen and unfulfilled, in our personal relationships and in our marriages. But the most powerful lessons I’ve learned didn’t come from textbooks. They came from life.

I’ve been in toxic relationships before. I know what it feels like to give your all and still feel unheard, unappreciated, and emotionally distant from someone you love. I also know the beauty of what’s possible on the other side—a marriage built on safety, trust, connection, and true partnership. And I can tell you with full honesty: the difference isn’t luck. It’s mindset and communication—and those are skills you can learn.

Before becoming a marriage coach, I worked in a mental health clinic and served in the Peace Corps in Zambia, teaching literacy and life skills to children and adults. I later lived in Zimbabwe with my husband before returning to the U.S., where I now live in Fort Campbell, KY as a proud Army wife and dedicated coach. My journey has taken me across countries and careers, but one thing has remained constant: I’m here to help women rise.

It started with giving advice in Facebook groups and answering messages from friends who were struggling in their marriages. But when women kept asking, “Do you coach?” I knew this was more than something I was good at—it was something I was meant to do.

Since then, I’ve helped hundreds of women shift their mindset, break toxic cycles, and finally feel seen, heard, and cherished in their marriage—without begging, blaming, or burning themselves out. I guide my clients to unlock the power they already have inside of them. Because you are not the problem. You are the solution!

At Be In Control Coaching, I combine mindset work, emotional awareness, communication strategies, and practical tools to help you take back your power and lead your relationship with clarity and calm confidence. Whether your marriage is hanging by a thread or simply needs a spark, I’m here to walk with you—one empowered step at a time.

If you’re ready to stop feeling like the only one trying, and start feeling like a woman who is loved, respected, and valued.... I’d be honored to help you get there!

Fun Facts About Me:

☕ I'm a coffee enthusiast.

⚽ I've played soccer my whole life.

🌍 I love to travel.

😺 I'm a proud cat mom.

📺 My guilty pleasure? Watching Love Island.